Breaking the code

Many activities come with a secret language. If you've ever been to Starbucks, In-N-Out, or been around a horse person (yes-we, we frequently travel with loose carrots in the car), you are familiar with this statement. Our lives create a secret language, too, and it may feel like a secret code to the outside world. Our friends and family aren't mind readers. The best way to get what we want or help others know who we are... tell them!